Tuesday, February 02, 2010

Don't Leave Comments On MY Blog If You're Going To Be A Big Ol Negative Nellie!

I have gotten a couple of comments from people who are too chicken to leave their names saying that they are glad I finally got my referral so I will quit complaining and that I have been horrible during this whole waiting for 4 LONG years. OH POO POO on you Negative Nellie! And YES, I know who you are because our site is encrypted and traces people who log in on it but you know what? I have chosen to take the high ground because that's the kind of person I am. Yes, I complained during the wait and HATED every minute of it because my heart has been longing for this sweet baby. Some people apparently didn't understand that and I'm sorry that they had NO empathy for how I felt and how sad the wait made me. So......I'm sitting here laughing at your silly little immature comments because it truly confirms the kind of person that I knew you were and I find amusing that you now have your baby and continue to lash out at me. This is the most joyful moment of our lives and there is NO WAY I'm going to let you bring me down! Everyone who truly knows me, knows that I am a good Christian woman who is going to love this baby so much and those are the people that count! So, NO your comments did not hurt me....they hurt you and I am going to be the bigger person and not tell the everyone who you are, BUT if you continue to do this, I WILL report it to our yahoo group and let the cat out of the bag......so yes, I forgive you Negative Nellie, now get over yourself!

24 comments:

sierrasmom said...

I am so sorry that anyone would dare take this joyous occasion and post a negative comment!! I loved just reading your last few posts and couldn't wait to check this morning to see if you ever got your call!!!! I am just an RQ follower but would love to follow your journey. You can check out my blog. You will see it if you click on my name!! My email is khikade@yahoo.com
Congratulations!!!!
Kathie

Michelle and Mike said...

Susan,
Congratulations on your referral! Enjoy this moment and the moments that will follow and do not let others try and inflict their negativity on you. I understand the long wait times, frustration and despair. Gaze at your beautiful little one and create memories that are forever embedded on your heart. My best to you and Doug as you prepare to start another part of your journey.

Michelle, WFFFC- KY

Tina said...

Congrats!!!!!!! So happy for you! I can't believe that after all this time- we have all gotten our referrals- finally!

Sandra & Steve said...

Wow, just hit your site for like the 2nd time ever from Rumor Queen and am dismayed that anyone could be so petty as to be negative to you during such a joyous time. If a plus cancels out a negative, let my comment cancel out theirs...WONDERFUL CONGRATULATIONS to you!!! It was not China and almost 2 years ago that we got our referral...I will always remember the joy as will you! So happy for you!!!!!!!!

Fliss and Mike Adventures said...

You go girl... this is what you DON'T need - on a great moment in your life... you get this BS... forget those boneheads... fru fru to them :)

Kathy said...

So sorry people are being negative at such a positive moment. You are the strong one, who has been through the wait and now you have seen your daughter. Hoping they find better things to do with their time.

Just Me said...

So sorry someone had to be negative at such a joyous time. I KNOW the wait was hard! There were many times we nearly threw in the towel and walked away, and I complained a lot too. Good for you for taking on such a good attitude...I'm not sure I would have been so nice.

Anonymous said...

I too am sorry that someone would be negative on such an exciting time for you and your family. I too am waiting and I too do a lot of whining about the wait. Congrats on your new baby, enjoy.

Robby, Tonja, Caitlin and Marissa said...

Wow, Susan. I just popped in to see if you had posted anything new on this blog and was so suprised to read what someone is writing. I am so sorry that they are trying to take away your joy. Good for you for being so positive. {{{Hugs}}}

Kathryn said...

What nerve Susan that anyone would ever judge or have the audacity to make a comment about how you felt during this horrendously long grueling wait!!!!! I'm sure that person does not possess and empathetic bone in their body!!!!!
Anyway... rejoice in this glorious moment and that you are going to have this little miracle in your life soon!!! So happy for you and your hubby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kathryn

lmstephenson2 said...

Congratulations on your referral and for surviving your four year wait! People can be very rude, but enjoy your moment! I think it took me a week to come off my referral when I received the referral for our daughter three years ago on February 1st.

Lynn
Mother to a Jiangxi fire cracker!

Sherri said...

Congratulations!!! on your referral - woo hoo. I"m so very happy for you. And I for the longest time get sick of trying to figure out rude and nasty people. Forget them stupid a---. Can't wait to see a pic.

hugs,
Sherri

Anonymous said...

Wow! Some people have a lot of nerve. Unless you have been through the waiting process don't even assume you know how Appleton's feel.

Now that I've said that congratulations on your referral!!

Kim
dd Della Grace adopted 9/8/08 from China.

Krista said...

Congratulations!! I hope you travel very soon!! I know for us that was the hardest part... waiting to travel..
Krista D
mom to 4 cuties!

Chrissie said...

Congrats on your referral...hope to see a picture soon!

Mean people stink:-( poo poo on them!

Susan Appleton said...

Thank you to everyone who has been so sweet and supportive and offered kind words of congratulations. Fat old Negative Nellie is still at with her twisted delusional self. She had the nerve to leave me another comment saying that I was whiner....well DUH! Of course I whine about the wait.....Get a life Negative Nellie! hahahahahahaha So, I've added a new safety feature so she can't leave anonymous comments like the little chicken she is! She needs to grow up and stop this "high school mean girls" routine! Considering her age, isn't it time to grow up????? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Love to the rest of you wonderful people and pity to her! STILL SMILING AND ON CLOUD NINE!!!!!

Shannon said...

I can't believe someone would rag you over how hard the wait is. I waited about 3 years and it damn near killed me. It was the HARDEST thing I've ever done. Ever. It really is unbearable to have that longing for a child to love and have no idea when it will come to pass.

In any case, I send you a big hug and lots of congratulations. I can't wait to see a pic!!

Fliss and Mike Adventures said...

If you don't whine and vent about the whole waiting thing - well, there must be something truly wrong with you (well, not you but everyone)... and yep, I am still on Cloud 9 too ;)

Taylor said...

Im so sorry that anyone could possible post something negative during such a wonderful time in your life hoping for a speedy TA we just returned from china last night cant wait to follow your journy to china.

Taylor

nikimac said...

CONGRATS!!!!!!! Don't let anything or anyone take away your joy.

Nicole

Just Me said...

Not only is the person negative, but also a coward if they posted anonymously. JMHO
~Lois

Karen said...

Congratulations on your referral. I know you've been waiting so very, very long. I'm just a reader. We have two daughters from China, now ages 6 & 7. If I may follow your journey, that would be wonderful, but truly understand if you wish to keep it private.

Kristy said...

Dont let these kind of people, get you down, until we have all walked a mile in each others shoes, we shouldnt judge. Dont let anything ruin this time for you.

Love and blessings, Kristy

Susan said...

I just found your blog and I am so sorry that people are being negative. This is a time of great joy for you and your family. My daughter has been home a bit over three years and you are in for the ride of your life.

I was one of the lucky ones...I didn't have the wait that all of you have had to endure. I can't imagine the ache you must have felt through the years.

Can't wait to read about your travel to your daughter and read about the joy you will feel when they place her in your arms.

Susan and Kate
Riverview FL